Girls Night Out !
- Habe Choo
- Oct 8, 2016
- 3 min read
besides jessica and julia, whom i met up with 6 months ago for the former and more occasionally for our K session for the latter, i could hardly remember when was the last time i met up with this group of people. yes, it was that long !
3 years had flown by unknowingly, and it felt just like yesterday when we were still reporting for our shifts at singapore flyer. how time flies....
but what amazes me is - no matter how often or how long we have/have not seen each other, there will always be endless of topics among us, and what's more, the joy and laughter they brought together with them. amazing, isn't it? and that's the reason why i love this gang.
to be honest, it has never been my forte in maintaining a friendship with anyone after parting ways, and it has been proven with my inability to stay in contact with my primary, secondary, poly, and even university friends after graduating. actually, it is not that i don't want to, but being someone who really doesn't socialise, i really have no idea how to do so. being able to communicate in school/classes is totally different from having to communicate outside classes, because most of our conversation topics revolve around schoolmates, projects, & homework back then. but now that we have graduated, what do we talk about? simply the thought of that just makes me all tensed up. however, it is totally different with this group of people, and i have no explanation why. all i could say is - fate. it has brought this group of people into my life 3 years ago, and gave me the opportunity to learn how to maintain a friendship that i hope will be able to last for a lifetime. and i am truly honoured to be part of this gang
yesterday's meet-up has made me realised that we have all grown up and matured to a certain extent. well, i guess that's part and parcel of life, forcing you to grow up and take responsibility in your own life. what's more important is that, looking at these ladies with their stable job also serves as a reminder to me that, "hey, look at them, they are almost the same age as you and are already having a stable income, what about you? it's really time to buck up please!" I must say, life after graduation hasn't been really smooth-sailing for me, and i guess it's mainly due to the fact that i did not know what i want initially and had yet to set a correct mindset/mentality to being a working adult and get adapted to the working world. though it's hard and pretty much frustrating, but i believe that this is part of the learning journey i have to endure and that the hardest part will soon be over. as the saying goes, "万事起头难". i hope that one day, i can achieve my goal that i set for myself
Once again, a big thank you for those who managed to fork the time out to make this meet-up a successful and truly much enjoyable one. couldn't love your ladies more! till we meet again!
“沒想過我們時間的牆 像一道會蔓延的畫廊 牆上掛滿回憶的螢光 一凝望就泛紅眼眶”
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